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Five things i've learned from being a mum

 Being a teen mum isn't easy, but it is very rewarding. I have learned so much by being a mum that I thought I would share what I've learned so far with you guys.

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  • 1.) How much you can love someone: I didn't know I could love someone as much as I love my daughter. I am always tired and run off my feet, but even when things are rough, I look at my daughter, and my heart swells with love.

  • 2.) You can never be prepared: No matter how much stuff you buy for baby, How much you pack for trips or to run into town to go shopping, things never go to plan, and you will randomly experience a time where no matter how much you tried to prepare it was all for nothing.

  • 3.) You can't make everyone happy: People will always find something to disapprove on wheater it is you choosing to cloth diaper or what you dressed your child in for the day; I learned to not listen to other people and only care about what my partner and myself find work for our family

  • 4.) How selfish you feel: Everything goes into baby and what she needs that I often feel selfish for handing her off to my partner to be able to shower in peace or for buying myself something small, all because, in my mind, everything has to be about her when in reality I need to care for myself as well.

  • 5.) Everyone is different: In pregnancy, I compared myself to everyone else who was pregnant, and I found myself doing that when she was born too. But no baby or family is the same, and as long as it works for us, that is all that matters.
if you are a parent what is the biggest thing you have learned.

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